Toronto Sun Columnist: Mark Bonokoski - Torment from the inside
Toronto Sun Columnist: Mark Bonokoski - Torment from the inside
February 6, 2005
Torment from the inside
By Mark Bonokoski -- For the Toronto Sun
WITH
SO much time on his hands -- being in prison for knifing a hero to
death being the reason -- Henry Danninger is seemingly using those long
and empty days to emotionally torment the family of the young man he
killed.
It is what Andy Moffitt's family truly believes.
November
was bad enough. Already troubled that the murderer of her son was
getting a shot at parole after only 18 months in prison, Paulette
Moffitt received what she then described as "devastating news" from the
National Parole Board -- word that Danninger was suddenly postponing
his Dec. 8 parole hearing until mid-January, and that there was nothing
the family could do.
It is how the game is played.
Henry
Danninger -- a Brockville-area drug dealer with a manslaughter
conviction now atop his rap sheet -- was basically calling the shots.
He pulled the strings. Everyone else was his puppet, including the National Parole Board.
And now, once again, he is playing puppet master.
He postponed his parole hearing once again.
It was set for Feb. 22.
Or at least it was until last week.
Andy
Moffitt, a 23-year-old computer whiz in his final year of engineering
at the University of Ottawa, was stabbed to death by Henry Danninger in
1998 -- on the eve of Christmas Eve -- when he tried to bring calm to a
violent confrontation at the Coyote Bar in a district of Ottawa known
as Sandy Hill.
The act of
courage that cost the young Brockville man his life saw him being
posthumously awarded the Governor General's Medal of Bravery in 2003.
'I am his mom'
"When
it is my turn to leave this planet, I hope to bring his medal to him,"
his mother said. "I know he is waiting for us. Only time keeps us
apart.
"I pray to
God that I am the first to go. I am his mom, and I want to hang the
Medal of Bravery around his neck and give him the biggest hug.
"He won't
be alone anymore," she said. "And maybe, just maybe, the rest of our
family will be able to go on with their lives. This is my prayer."
Rod and
Paulette Moffitt have steeled themselves twice now to face their son's
killer who, on the first day of his trial for second-degree murder in
2003, copped a guilty plea to manslaughter and received a five-year
sentence.
They have
sent their victim-impact statements to the parole board, as have their
son's best friend, Craig Wells, the one who held their son in his arms
as he lying dying on the floor of the Coyote Bar with a stab wound
through the heart.
They had done it all -- booked off work, reserved hotel rooms, gathered supporters and found emotional backbone.
Then the Dec. 8 parole hearing was cancelled by Danninger, all which made Christmas even more stressful.
There was the Christmas-time anniversary of Andy's death to endure, and then thoughts of facing Danninger on Jan. 14.
Then that parole hearing was postponed by Danninger, and typed into the books for Feb. 22.
Yet to receive letter
But now that one's not going to happen either.
Henry Danninger, 31, has again pulled the strings.
"The
offender has the right to ask for, and get, a postponement until the
board takes the position there is no valid reason," said the parole
board's Carol Sparling. Sparling was unable to give particulars on the
Danninger case because of Privacy Act restrictions.
At this
writing, Paulette Moffitt had yet to receive the official letter from
the parole board -- just the phone call -- stating that her son's
killer, for whatever reason, has decided that Feb. 22 would no longer
be the day the puppet show ends.
Sparling said no new date has been set, although the Moffitts were told, via telephone, that Apr. 19 was likely the next date.
"It's
heart-breaking what they're doing, because I truly believe what they
are doing, they are doing to our son," said Paulette Moffitt.
"It is absolutely wrong. How can Andy possibly rest in peace until this is over?